Places I want to go


These are taken at the Maldives, Santorini and random places I don’t know where is. So beautiful and romantic, or what?

~Lene

A beautiful winter world outside

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Hey! Ain’t it weird how you can hate something this beautiful? Winter just isn’t my thing. Luckily, we (my family and I) are going to Florida for two weeks in February!!!  I’ve never been in the states before, so I’m looking forward to it!  I’ll tell you more some other time, I promise.

 

Long time

Sorry, long time, no see. I haven’t had anything to write about (and I still don’t, just felt a pressure!). To   an okay quality on my posts, I choose not to post in dry-times like this.
I turned 16 this week, fyi.

Wow, big picture. Celebrated with a muffin.

~Lene

Happy New Year!

Hey. Uhm, sorry I have been away for a while. I have been busy having a merry Christmas and all that. It’s 5th of January today. Can you believe that we have wasted five days of 2012 already? I can. If there is one thing that people are great at, it must be wasting time!
For the first time in many years, I have not made any New Year’s resolutions. I usually make five or six resolutions, but do I ever keep them? Of course I never do. So the reason that I decided not to make any resolution this year is because I have trouble believing in a new start over night just like that. All the people that makes becoming a better person their resolution; do any of them really become better people? Do they remember their resolutions for more than a month or perhaps two at most? If somebody really wants to change, I most certainly believe that they can to that at any time of the year. And how easy is it to keep a resolution that you made maybe just because it is the end of a year, anyway? But hey, that is just me.

Happy New Year, people. Make it special. Make memories. Give love. Get love.

~Lene

L’esprit de l’escalier

L’esprit de l’escalier (French)
That feeling you get when you leave a conversation and
think of all the things you should have said.
There is no word in the English language for this.

I think it’s weird and really sad that this feeling never got its own word in the English language (not in the Norwegian one either, for that sake.) I’m probably not the only one who walk around for days thinking about things I could have said instead of the stupid and thoughtless thing that I did say? I always imagine how the conversation would have ended if I said this or maybe even that…?

When I think about it, it’s actually many feelings there is no word for in the English language. In my opinion English is a poor language. It’s easy to learn (unlike for example German or French), and that’s a good thing. But is it as describing? Is it as poetic and beautiful? No, it’s not. For me, who loves words, it would me much more enjoyable to write and read if there were more English words!

I’m using Greek as an example of a rich language. Greek is super precise! In English, you use “to love” for all kinds of love, but Greek have four different words for it, all with different meanings:

  1. a brotherly love- Storge.
  2. a sexual love- Eros. In English this is often translated to “erotic”, but it’s not quite the same, because the eros does not necessarily have to be sexual in nature. Eros can be interpreted as a love for someone you love more than the friendship love, Phileo.
  3. a love of God/unconditional love-  Agape.
  4. a friendship kind of love- Phileo. This word includes loyalty to your friends, family and community. This word is amazing. It has so much underlying meaning.

Now, let’s take a look at other feelings that there’s no word for in English… You know when you’re caringly running your fingers through someone’s hair? In Brazilian Portuguese, that’s called Cafuné.
I have a long distance relationship; my boyfriend lives on the other side of the country. The feeling of happiness I get when I meet him again after a long time is in French called Retrouvailles, and it’s a great feeling. It deserves an own word and a place in the English language too! Another cool word is Ilunga, which is a Bantu-word. Ilunga is a person who is willing to forgive(!) mistreatment  the first time; tolerate it the second time, but never a third time. This last feeling I’m going to write about is a feeling that I’m sure many of you’ve felt before. La Douleur Exquise(French). This is the heart-wrenching pain of wanting someone you can’t have. I just… I really wish for more words. The more the merrier.

~Lene